Threesomes
This article will explore the world of threesomes: what kinds of people participate and why, some of the different types of threesomes, and its advantages and disadvantages.
Who Wants to be Part of a Threesome?
People pursue threesomes for various reasons. First, the most common, are men who are looking to fulfill the fantasy of being with two women at the same time, especially if the women perform bisexual acts during the course of the threesome, otherwise known as "show time". ? There are also women who want to experience being with two men at the same time (which is not as uncommon as you might think).
Furthermore, there are those looking to experiment, usually during college years (otherwise known as the "experimental years"), or those who have recently been divorced after being married for a lot of years, particularly those who married at a very young age. They may have missed out on the experimental years when they were younger, so they look to make up for it later in life.
Lastly, there are very sexual men and women who are looking for more variety and merely want and need more than the typical “one on one” sex act - at least once in a while.
Why Would Someone Initiate a Threesome?
A man or woman might be looking to please their partner by fulfilling his/her fantasies or bi-curious tendencies, and so agrees to a threesome with another person. Of course, there is the bisexual person who is simply looking for that occasional excitement of a threesome.
For many bisexual women, having sex with a man is like having dinner... dinner is something you have every night. However, having sex with a woman is like having dessert... something you don't necessarily have every night, but something you may treat yourself to on occasion!
Swingers (who are now referred to as people who live alternative lifestyles) will often enjoy any kind of an orgy, including threesomes. So a swinger would definitely have reason to initiate a threesome. Also, a person who is looking for a lot of attention and wants to be the so-called "meat in the sandwich" is a prime candidate for initiating a threesome.
Different types of threesomes
The most common threesome is that of a man and two women. The second most common threesome is a woman with two men. However, there are threesomes consisting of the same sex (i.e. 3 men or 3 women). There are also the threesomes that include bisexuality, and then there are those that don't; some just want to experience their partner in a physically intimate situation with another person.
Advantages and Disadvantages of Threesomes
For very sexual people, or for those who are bi-curious, a threesome can genuinely be an electrifying experience. However, for those who are agreeing to a threesome solely for the purpose of pleasing their partner (but who are not really into it), there can be repercussions.
A very common example of a negative experience is of a spouse or a partner in a serious relationship, where there is LOVE involved, with the very real potential of jealousy affecting the ongoing relationship. As much as you may want to fulfill your partner’s fantasy because you love him or her, beware…….this is not an easy task when you are in love. Even for the most sexual people, love creates problems when it comes to threesomes, and even if you are bisexual and want to have a threesome for selfish reasons, it can still be very difficult for you to see your loved one participating in a sexual act with someone other than yourself.
However, if you are not in love with your partner and may just be having a sexual fling with that person, then a threesome can be simply orgasmic, because you can enjoy the excitement without the jealously, and if bisexuality is involved, you can also benefit from the best of both worlds!
So far I’ve been primarily focusing on the couple. Now let’s talk about the outsider, the “guest”. Being the outsider in a threesome is probably the best position to be in (no pun intended), because there is no love or emotion involved, you are there exclusively for the sex act. In most cases, the guest gets treated like a princess or a prince (as mentioned earlier, the meat in the sandwich), because the guest is the source of exhilaration and variety for the couple. Many times the guest is the couple’s fantasy come true, and that’s a pleasing feeling for the outsider. So, if you like a lot of attention, and if you like to fulfill other people’s fantasies, definitely consider being the guest in a threesome.
The most common difficulty in being the guest in a threesome is when he or she is participating with a couple who has never had a threesome together previously; especially if you are a female guest of a couple in which the wife or girlfriend is not bisexual or bi-curious, and the husband or boyfriend tries to push a bisexual act on his partner when she’s really not into it! It really puts the female guest in a very uncomfortable situation. This can easily cause an argument between the partners.
In some cases one partner will start to get jealous watching his or her partner making love with another person, which obviously results in making it a distressing situation for everyone involved. I’ve literally seen wives end up in tears and couples end up not talking or fighting. Needless to say, the guest ends up feeling responsible.
Initiating the Topic with your Partner
First of all, as I’ve emphasized earlier, if your partner is your spouse or someone you are truly in love with, my advice is, "Don’t even consider it!" If you are adamant about sharing this particular fantasy with your loved one, I may have a happy medium for you... keep it as a fantasy only, but share it with your partner. In other words, during sex with your partner you can initiate sex talk about threesomes. Be honest and ask your partner to participate in the sex talk as well, and ask him or her to make up stories for you too, stories consisting of the two of you with a third person. That way you’re always including your partner in your fantasy, without the repercussions that can occur from actually doing it. Your partner may even surprise you and end up being more turned on then you could have imagined. He or she may even have a few fantasies of his or her own to share with you, via sex talk. I sincerely suggest that you take my advice on this matter, as I’ve seen threesomes backfire way too many times with married couples or couples in a serious relationship! Trust me, you don’t want to learn the hard way, it can end your marriage or a wonderful relationship, and a threesome is simply not worth that. So, consider keeping your threesomes just between the two of you!
Now, on the flip side, for couples who are not married or necessarily in love, or who are absolutely sure that pursuing a threesome will not jeopardize their relationship … you can initiate a conversation with your partner suggesting such. First of all, honesty about your desires is the best policy, but keep in mind that this is a very delicate topic and must be treated as such... with great discretion.
You must first use common sense. I don’t know your partner, but you do! Is he or she the type who might participate in such? Is he or she a very sexual person? Is he or she one who has been known to experiment sexually? Has he or she ever talked about fantasies with you? Has he or she ever expressed being bi-curious? All of these questions are essential in determining whether or not your partner should be asked to participate in a threesome.
As a hypothetic example: Suppose your partner is a woman who teaches elementary school, who was a virgin until she was 25 years old, and you are only the second man she’s ever had sex with in her entire life; with someone like her, I suggest that you forget the idea of a threesome, limit it to sex talk. Unless, she’s the total opposite in bed, which is rare, but it does occur on occasion. So, if you have a real wild card on your hands in bed, then that’s a horse of a different color. Otherwise, don’t pursue a threesome with her, unless you’re prepared for the possibility of the relationship ending, or at least starting a huge fight.
Now, once you’ve truly found a potential partner to approach, suggest a threesome while you’re already engaging in sex. The chance of hearing the answer you want to hear is much more likely to happen if you ask him or her while he or she is already hot!!! There’s no right or wrong way to suggest a threesome. It truly depends on the people involved and the relationship you have. My only advice is that if and when you do propose it to your partner, make it perfectly clear that your desire for the threesome is not in any way, shape, size, or form, a result of your partner being inadequate! So, please be careful and make sure that you emphasize that it’s just a sexual fantasy, and that it wouldn’t be same without him or her.
Fortunately, most women are well aware that the overwhelming majority of men would give their right arm to be with two women at the same time? However, men, on the other hand, tend to find it difficult to understand why a woman would want a threesome with another man. Women, you have to be especially cautious, because men can be so much more insecure than they admit they are. So, when you do suggest it to your man, you might want to tell him that you are simply an extremely sexual woman (which alone will turn him on) and that you have many sexual fantasies (which will excite him even more), but you have no desire to fulfill any of them without him. That will boost his ego, which will hopefully help him see your suggestion of a threesome from a different prospective, a non-threatening one.
Selecting a Third Party
There are pros and cons in choosing a friend or a stranger. On one hand, you would probably feel more comfortable with someone you know - but on the other hand, you’re taking the chance of possibly ruining that friendship if complications or jealousy arise. Even if the threesome turns out to be successful, it may still make all parties involved feel uncomfortable in the future if it was with a good friend. (Note: I would advise, whether you invite a friend or a stranger to join you, that you’ll still take the same safety precautions.)
So, I do not recommend a threesome with a friend! An acquaintance, however, is a different story. There are some very attractive, clean, well-educated, successful people out there who happen to be very sexual. Just because they are not already a friend of yours doesn’t mean that they are not worthy of being your third person in a threesome.
As far as having a threesome more than once with the same person is concerned, again I would have to say it really depends on the people. It depends if the couple is secure enough, if the third party is non-threatening in any way, and whether or not this is something the couple initially wanted to do it as a one-time experience or if this is something the couple planned to do on a somewhat regular basis. These are topics that simply cannot be generalized, because every situation is different. I’ve had my share of one-time affairs as the guest that worked out great. Yet, I’ve also known various couples throughout the years that I would spend time with regularly, and that worked too. So, you really have to see where the first experience takes you, and all three parties obviously must want the same thing. If the experience was great and there was no jealousy involved, especially if the guest is not a good friend, I would definitely go for it again! So, it truly depends on the circumstances.
Where to Find a Third?
A swing club is a great source to find others who are looking to experiment and fulfill fantasies; they are still out there (although perhaps not as many as there were years ago). To find swing clubs, simply go to any search engine and type the words, “swing club”, once you bypass some of the swing dancing sites, you’ll see many sites that actually refer to sex clubs. Another option is the Personals on the Internet; they too are a great means for finding someone for a threesome. The Internet Personals are not only designed for couples looking for love, they are usually broken down into categories, so you can search for what you are specifically looking for. You can also exchange various photos online first, and you can chat via email or telephone until you feel comfortable enough to meet. Do NOT go to a regular bar or night club and try to pick up someone who you think might be a likely candidate. That’s a really good way to very possibly embarrass yourself, not to mention, get slapped!
What's a good place for a threesome?
This is probably the easiest question to answer, and that is … wherever is most convenient for all parties involved. It seems to be more common for the couple to entertain the third person in their home. However, it certainly wouldn’t be the first time that a couple would travel to the third person’s home to be entertained, especially when the couple have children. I guess you can meet at a hotel, but from my many experiences, that’s not too common. Unless, of course, you’re at a swing club, which is the exception to the rule. Now, that can be a really exciting venue for a threesome, or a foursome, or fivesome, etc...
Conclusion
Try not to participate in a threesome with someone you are in love with, or if you know that either of you become jealous easily. Instead, explore some new exciting things that just the two of you can do together in the bedroom, including sex talk about threesomes.
For those of you who are not in love and/or who are planning a threesome for the right reasons, but it’s your first time and have absolutely no clue as to what to do... believe me, most of it will come naturally! Most times, it’s not planned, it just happens.
One option of a threesome is to make one person the star, and let that person lay back while the other two devour him or her, making the person who is receiving at the time feel like a real prince or a princess! A great idea for a birthday present too! However, it’s nice to take turns receiving and giving, so that everyone gets a turn to be a prince or a princess.
A crucial rule is to make sure that no one gets left out!!! Too often a spouse gives more attention to the guest than his or her partner … no, no, no. Trust me; always make sure your partner gets just as much attention as the guest does! Not doing so can literally end a marriage. An easy solution is to take turns in giving and receiving, as mentioned earlier, and be aware of how much time you spend on the guest, because when it’s your partner’s turn to be the prince or princess you want to make sure that he or she receives the same amount of time, maybe even a little more.
The beauty of a threesome, especially when bi-sexuality is a part of it, is that each participant can almost always be giving and receiving at all times. It’s an incredibly hot experience that I believe everyone should consider trying... at least once in their life!
My girlfriend last night got
My girlfriend last night got really horny together, and we basically said that we could do a 3/4some if we wanted, I'm really up for it tho i am a tad sxard that she's gona get joules after or something like that. To be honest i dont mind if we do a 4some, it sounds kinda hot. So anyone got any stories that would help, or stories in general, me n my girl get off on hot sex stories ;)
Thanks
this weekend
My wife went out this past weekend and I decided to stay home. She usually doesn't stay out late. I woke up about 2 in the morning to find her not home yet. I checked my phone to see if she had called or text me, and there was a text. She had run into an old high school girlfriend and decided to go to breakfast after the bars. Knowing what she was doing put me at ease and I went back to bed. About a half hour later I heard them downstairs talking and giggling. I laid there in bed listening to them for a while and then they got quiet after about 20 minutes. My curiosity got the best of me, so I went to start down the stairway and could hear moaning and kissing sounds. I walked down the stairs slowly and saw my wife's friend on her knees on the couch, fully naked and my wife slowly licking her ass and pussy. I was instantly hard at the sight of this. I began stroking my cock while watching them. They both looked so hot. My wife is 5'5", blonde, shoulder length, slim and tone with 34b, and her friend is about 5'7", auburn hair to the mid back, same build with 34dd. As I stood there stoking my cock, watching, I felt an orgasm building. So I walked the rest of the way down the stairs and stood behind my wife. She noticed me standing behind her stroking my cock. She smiled and went back to licking her friends ass and pussy. I motioned to her that I was about to come and she, reached out and began stroking my cock all while she continued licking that perfectly round ass. I tilted my head back and she tugged me closer to her friends ass. She move her face from her ass and I shot my load all over the crack of her ass. Her friend was startled at first, but then gave me a huge beautiful smile when my wife resumed licking her ass and my cum from it. She motioned to come around to the back of the couch and began stroking my cock and balls til I was hard again. She the began sucking my cock slowly. I couldn't keep my eyes off my wife as she made a meal out of her friends ass. Her friend was moaning as she sucked my cock. My wife kept eye contact with me as she buried her tongue in that ass. My cock began to twitch and I filled her frienda mouth full of cum. My wife stood up and came over and kissed me. She told me that I should go down on her friend while she sucked my cock. I walked around to the front of the couch and turned her friend on her back and began kissing her lips and mouth passionately. I could taste my cum in her mouth. This was a huge turn-on and by then my wife had my cock in her mouth. Her friend got up, I sat down and she straddled my legs with her feet and stood with her ass in my face. My wife began sucking my cock as I feasted on her friends soaked pussy. I couldn't believe what was going on. I then began licking her tight little ass and darting my tongue into her anus. I could feel her tremble and soon she came. My wife got on her knees and began licking her friends clit. She came and soaked my wife and I. My wife moved her friend out of the way and straddled my cock with her back to me. As she began fucking me, I felt her friends mouth and tongue on my balls and cock as my wife slid up amd down my cock. This feeling didn't take long for me to erupt. I came, filling my wifes pussy. She started rubbing her clit as her friend continued licking my balls. My wife came a few minutes later. After she came her friend lapped at my wife's pussy, cleaning out juices from it and eventually pulled my wife from me and licked her pussy clean of my cum. After all that we went in and took a shower together and all crawled into our bed for some rest. A few ours later it all started again. I was woke up by my wife's friend sucking my cock and my wife watching and masterbating with her vibe.
My girlfriend and i have
My girlfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have been trying to look for a girl for a threesome. We both dont want another male we both just want to do a female. At first i didn't take this subject seriously because i didnt know how she really felt about it but now im for sure that this is something that we both want! It can be hard to find someone at times. Usually the girl just wants to fuck either me or her and not both and neither of us wants that! We have someone in mind but now we are just talking and getting to know each other better! Is there anything that i should know, consider or any advice out there. This would be my first threesome and i am exited however i want to know what i can do to make sure this is an enjoyable experience to have and maybe do a second time!
my threesome
Me and my husband has been together a lil over a year now and we have been talkin bout havein a threesome for a while now well we hocked up with one of my friends and got together. I fone night....everythang was ok and all I still felt a lil uncomfortable about the whole thang but went along with it u no hopein mayeb it would help spice up or relationship or something...well it keeps going and I was ok during it till he put her were she was eatin me out and he was doin he doggy style and I just couldn't look at him idn just something came over me that I couldn't maybe the fact that I was lettin the one I love fuck another girl yea I was there but still it just wasn't right....but after everythang was over and done with we went to sleep and my friend stayed with me for a couple more days...but now everytime I ask him if he wants to just have sex with him and me he always have a excuse to why he dnt want to or can't but he will text me and her askin if we wanted a threesome again.....idn what to think he will fuck me and another girl and is always up to that and all but when it comes to us he just isn't in the mood anymore and idn what to do bout it....so if anyone can help me wrap my head around that fact on why he won't just fuck me please help me out
have u tried to flirt or
have u tried to flirt or seduce him? Try to kiss on him and give him head and see how he responds. Tell him how u feel.
My wife really wants a
My wife really wants a threesome, but even more wants to get gang banged,very sexy! She has had several partners since she and I got together and loves being with other men, while i watch. I really enjoy her having sex when I'm not there , I like knowing she's having sex without me there. Very stimulating her talking about wanting to bang some guy she is talking to, watching her get ready for a date, or just fu**ing some guy then telling me all about it while I fu** her. She likes to take me shopping for lingerie and talk about how this guy is gonna fu** her, or do this to her. She says that is the best part, how aroused I get when she is talking, and our sex after.
help
how do i get my wife to be to have a ffm threesome
without her getting upst at me?
lol, i was the meat with the
lol, i was the meat with the two lesbians, they put a strap on on me, on is riding on my shaft, the other one is riding of the strap. but it was boring, i was completely ignored
3eees company
Several times over the past few years my husband has brought home a man or I suggested a man from our work envirnment or the workout gym and offered to have him come play. After a nice dinner and a few drinks we ventured down stairs to our finished basement with a bedroom, flat screen on the wall and a small library of xxx dvd's. One can always tell when the eyes grow wide & a smile appears that this could be fun.
It's a powerful feeling being the center of attention of two attractive, very sexy well built men. I find myself lost in the moment, lost in the hour, lost in the night. For hours we play until all the energies are spent. Sore, tired & satisfied.
We have a very happy home. I wish to keep it that way!!!
we love ffm threesomes
My gf and I have threesomes on a regular. She is bi and really loves the touch of another woman. Bringing in another male has been mentioned. I told her that it is fine but she can't touch a female in one of our ffm threesomes. She says NO WAY because she loves females as much as me. I only say that because I think a threesome should be even for everyone involved. I am straight therefore in a mmf threesome I am not touching the male. I only get her. In a ffm threesome everybody gets everybody. I'm not being selfish. I just think that the playing field should be even. I even mentioned bringing in a couple but she can't touch the female and she said that's not happening. lol. Although we have had a few threesomes they are hard to come about at our age. We are in our early 20's and don't find many trustworthy females our age.
i had one threesome and i
i had one threesome and i was single, so i was the third wheel i guess... The meat!
Unfair
Well my hubby brought up the idea of me inviting another gal to have fun but i then asked what if i brought a man instead, he looked at me funny and said F*** no. so that was my answer too.
I have no desire to be sexually inimate with two people at the same time especially when i care only about only one of them.
why would i agree to do something i dont want to do in the first place and not get it my way too.
Its not like i havent been with women before, it just isnt anything that interests me.
LISTEN GUYS!
IF YOU WOULD NOT HAVE A THREESOME WITH ANOTHER MAN TO PLEASE YOUR WOMAN DONT PRESSURE HER TO DO IT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN IF SHE DOES NOT WANT TO!
its sad to say but most men are pigs and arent open minded, dont expect everything to go your way.
(ps this isnt for every man, this is only for the chauvinist close minded losers :)
My gf won't even consider
My gf won't even consider it... I don't even care if it's a guy or a girl
Threesomes and love
My wife and I had talked about the idea of a threesome for a good couple of years as a form of being additionally aroused in the bedroom, newlyweds lol. We have always been open sexually and decided we would make it happen on a ffm basis as my wife loved the idea of being intimate with another woman. Also she loved the idea of watching me penetrate and perform oral sex on the other party. We decided that a good friend of ours who shared our sexual opinions was an ideal option being single and a trusted friend, we spent a few weeks exploring some simple fooling around and testing limits before we had our first full experience. For us this has turned out to be great, there were no restrictions other than no anal which all three agreed to. We accepted kissing as this makes everything even more erotically charged, try not kissing your partner during sex and you will see what i mean. Now a few months on and we still regularily participate in 3somes. But more surprising is that we both felt more for the 3rd party and now persue an open relationship with her as long as she is comfortable. I love hearing stories from my wife when she stays over at her house or even upstairs when i'm cooking dinner, and vice versa when myself and our new lover get together. Biggest thing right from the start was trust, without completely trusting your partner i would definitely not recommend a 3some but for us it has been a life changing experience. My initial reservations on being able to satisfy 2 women soon passed, you soon learn to keep a lid on yourself while still enjoying every minute. Although its great to let rip and fill whichever hole is occupied or simply go for the cover all option. Ady -X-
threesome
i have had many 3some experiences in my younger days (teenager) with mmw,wwm no m 2 m penetration.it is enjoyable.I think that if 3somes is practiced you shouldnt have any feelings for the other person unless you are very open in ure relationship.
always ask ureself,would u like it if it was being done to u..meaning ure partner having another partner with u there
i see alot of posts the female love to have another guy or another woman..where does the male benifit?
being able to just only detach yourself from your own feelings..
...but someone who is dominant? This will not work...if you read her only on her readings...she may do the same thing to you....and call you on it....or believe that you are being judgemental. Afterall...why is a man's best friend a dog?? Cause he can read the emotions in others easily?? NO...because he can also be judgemental...detach himself from his feelings...to which a dominant woman is already doing the same. Then the dominant woman can see him trying to put moves on her....and see him...by making those same shy moods...but then read him as well! Basically...a dominant woman is basically that...DOMINANT...don't tell me women in high power (or even educated women...which typically are the most dominant) ie politics, CEO, that prison warden bitch from Death Race...don't detach themselves from their emotions too! Basically two things you can only do...call her on it...or basically challenging her...or...act nice boys and she'll eat you up. This does not mean sending emails like "hey babe...what's up?" or even the matter of a couple with a dominant women...will judge you! Trust me...easy to see...a typical man way. So then...what do you do...email asking questions will work typically the most (although very dominant women will typically won't mind the hey let's fuck if she thinks your cute and can shut your mouth) to woman always...this shows your true interest in them...like what you like to do for fun? maybe stating some of your own...point is...she doesn't want to see you...or even another couple...thinking with their testosterones...but...after some correspondance...with the similar questions posed...it shows you have emotions and thought!! Your open about sharing...and communication...and typically...if communication runs this way...it won't be long till either she starts telling you her fantasies...or even her most thoughts...or just an email saying she'd love to meet up for coffee.
POINT IS WITH DOMINANT WOMEN:
1. Submit and Challenge her
2. Or communicate with thought and interest...opening communication and comfort
Let's see what other girls and you guys think...post on this post lolz
Just a little advice from MA in Psychology..lol
also....should point out to haters below.......
why all the haters?? thinking that this will ruin a relationship...some social norms would tell us this....but what's it your business....if they are not hurting anyone or themselves (properly using safe sex) behind closed doors...and have openly communicated with each other in a truly non-judgemental way to have a Threesome...cause the true definition of a sex addict in most peoples thoughts...which man who the hell likes to label another person or couple...IS someone who acts compulsively that hurts them or those close to themselves with no disreguard to their emotions or feelings.....is the typical definition of a addict....or in probably your thoughts in this case a sex addict???
My boyfriend and I love
My boyfriend and I love talking about a WWM threesome - it turns both of us on to imagine it! I have thought about MMW before, with me as the 'meat' in the sandwich, but the idea isn't something my guy can handle... he says annother dick in the room would just make him want to leave. It doesn't surprise me, as he is a very straight kind of guy, but I'm bi-curious and love the idea of sex with a woman! I really want to give WWM a try but there are issues; we are in love and both don't like the idea of him having sex with annother woman... when we talk of a 3some it's always with the idea of me in the middle, as it were. He's good with me having sex with annother woman as this isn't threatening - he knows I'm satisfied by him alone and wouldn't do it without him as for me it's like an 'extra' as part of our relationship. Plus it turns him on which helps! But I'm not sure how a WWM 3some where the guest W only interacted with the other woman would work, is it technically even a 3some if all participants are not all having some kind of sex with each other?
unexpected but still
i was at a party with my gf and her freind was there and i didnt no they were bi (turns out they r) and they were kissing in the corner and they seen me as i walked to her bedroom to get another drink well wen i turned around they were standing there and it happened so quickly i dont no wat happened apart from it was awsome and now we regularly have it with each other as they really enjoy it they said they like eachother and they also like me so everytime we r at a party i cant say i dont enjoy it but it can go for a long long time thats the only let down
hmmmm
I see alot of people on here wondering if this will mess there relationship up. If you have a doubt or think it might...DONT DO IT! Me and my wife have recently been talking about having 2 threesomes. MMW and WWM. We have decided not to ask any of our friends and the person we do chose will have to go with us to have STD tests done (condoms arent 100%). My advice is use a stranger, but be safe...there are ways of proving you are clean. and after the fact break ALL ties with that person. I also see alot of guys on here talking about a WWM 3some but will not have a MMW threesome. Odds are your girl wants 2 men at once but probably wont say it. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Keep that in mind. she has fantasys too :)
ok
This is nasty.............
My husband and I have been
My husband and I have been talking about having a treesome for a long time now. One with 2f and 1m and one with 2m and 1f. I have a gf who he is also friends with and discovered that she was curious also. After some discussions we decided that we were going to do it together. There was no intercourse with him and her but everything else. I thought that I was going to be fine with it and during it I was fine. But after she had got off she was done and that ruined the mood for him. So then he was done. I felt so aweful. Should I have felt this way? All he is worried about is how she feels.. hasnt asked me once how I was. Am I crazy?
my experience
No you aren't crazy. I had a threesome with my boyfriend over a year ago and now looking back, it literally makes me physically and emotionally sick. He did everything to her but penile penetration and he and I did everything while she watched and touched me. I know to many that sounds like a sweet deal but it has eaten at me ever since. My advice on threesomes is to only do them with people you have no emotional attachment to and preferably aren't going to see again except for another threesome maybe. Also make sure you are secure enough with yourself and your sexuality to handle the possibility of feeling used and/or cheap.
Well
Me and my boyfriend have talked about having a threesome, but we have both voiced that we don't want to share each other. He suggested that if we ever did, he would only do oral and anal with her, but I'm still not sure. I mean, I've always wanted to have a threesome, but with him, I think I would have a hard time, because I really love him, and I don't want to see him doing anything with another girl.
Establish the rules
The only thing about 3somes is need to determine the rules ahead of time, especially if you GF is not bi. Personally. I like to use montreal escorts because they establish the guidelines of what they will and wont do so you always know what you are in for.
Threesomes are over rated,
Threesomes are over rated, guys, think about it, your responsible for giving 2 girls orgasms, thats just too much work for me, 1 on 1 is plenty for me
Four
Well it just took a day and being what I am and to get my wife satisfied and her curiosity aroused, I got around an extra male from a swingers club to join in with our chosen other male to give an alternative to threesome to get 3m 1F sexual encounter. We obviously first had to have a good discussion as to what needs to be done and how far we intend going. I must say that a good educational porn movie beforehand gave us a good insight and when we were ready we set ourselves out comfortably.Now this is not difficult, but psychologicaly to play a part one has to be absolutely sure that it's for fun only and not for emotional reasons.If that hurdle is overcome then it's all well, but remember that the woman (like mine) must never be abused, but volantarily satisfied.
I will just outline what worked fine for us and we stuck to it. Considering sizes and penetration, my wife had to make the decision as to which one she would be able to take in which opening. At length, it was decided that I will anal (as she is use to me there), male 2 with the longer penis was to do vaginal, and male 3 would have been the easiest to oral.
I lay flat on back with my wife lowering her anus onto my cock. . She than bent backwards to lay flat on my chest and male 2 then pushed his cock in from the top.Her head now almost on my face, but facing upwards, male 3 pumped his cock into her mouth. We all moved together is a steady rhythm and as soon one was about to ejaculate, we all stopped. This went on for a while until we all were ready to explode.(my wife included). it all went off with an intense orgasm and we totally cleared out our cum before we stopped.
To all intense an purposes, it was fantastic, alot of cleaning up to do as a lot of semem is ejaculated, but when I asked my wife later if it was ok she said "absolute" but lets have this type of sex only on special occations. A word of advice to those who want to try this. It's taxing if you not experienced and the female must be a 100% willing partner. The chosen males must have had done this type of foursome previouly and the sizes of their penis's must be able to accomodate the woman's openings. If not she can be injured very badly, so choose carefully.As for the cum factor, my woman normally treats is as an extra bonus, so no bar is placed as to it's taste or where it's ejaculated. She enjoys, swallows, licks or sucks it but it may differ with other woman.
me and my wife [then fiancee] did once...
an old friend of hers, m, and me. although i said i was ok with it, wasn't really. only true regret in life. However, it did open us to multi penetration sex so now often we have anal and she uses a rabbit vaginally. but, more than likely, never participate in one again, espc with people you know/used to know.
Threesome
Previously my wife and I had many a threesome's but limited to 2f 1m (me).As anal sex was difficult and not an option we stuck to that option. However it's a few months down the line, My wife and I are into Anal after some advise received, and now we have just tried a threesome, but with 2m 1f (wife). It was fun, especially if us two males moved into a postion of "double penetration" or "a" hole one with oral on the other, similarly vaginal and oral. The main satisfaction obtained in this variant is for the female as she has the advantage of getting in 2 c..ks at 1 time and like my wife (an ardent lover of semen)....some woman are, she has more than enough to content with. My wife wants now a 3m (her thinking is she has 3 holes so why can't they be used all together at the same time...Ha ha..I said i'll consider it.!
spring break threesome...
i was attending one college and a friend of mine was at another, his spring break was a week before mine, as was his best friend's. He invited me to a small party he was having at his apartment and i spent the night flirting back and forth with both him, a college track runner, and his best friend, a college swimmer. After a little more flirting and drinking, me and the swimmer went into the bathroom for a little fun, well we must have forgotten the lock the door cuz 30 secs later the runner came in and was like "what, r u starting the party with out me?" Needless to say we lock that door that time and next 2 hrs went by like a whirlwind of orgasm and unexplainable pleasure, runner would kiss and caress me as swimmer went down on me, then they switched...next thing i knew i was bent over with swimmer taking me from behind as i sucked the cock of runner...then they switched...over and over and over...until we moved into the shower to clean up before returning to the party...most incredible, spontaneous, sexual, and orgasmic experience of my life!!!