
Homosexuality
Since its inception, the term homosexuality has acquired multiple meanings. In the original sense, it refers to a sexual orientation characterized by a lasting aesthetic attraction, romantic love and sexual desire exclusively for members of the same sex or gender identity. It can as well, refer to sexual relations with another of the same sex regardless of one's sexual orientation, self-identification or gender identity.
Homosexuality is usually contrasted with heterosexuality and bisexuality. But since who we want to get sexual with is affected by biological, historical and psychosocial components, no single label or description will fit all of us.
The word homosexual translates literally as "of the same sex," being a hybrid of the Greek prefix homo- meaning "same" and the Latin root sex- meaning "sex." The first known appearance of the term homosexual in print is found in an anonymously published 1869 German pamphlet.
Since homosexual places emphasis on sexuality, it should be avoided in reference to non-sexual contexts. Some people also feel the term is too clinical and somewhat dehumanizing. Much of that sentiment arose while homosexuality was still classified as a mental illness in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. As a result of this sentiment the terms gay and lesbian are generally preferred when discussing a person with a particular sexual orientation.
Some same-sex oriented people actually prefer the term homosexual to gay, as they may perceive the former as describing a sexual orientation and the latter as describing a cultural or social/political group with which they do not identify.
The term 'gay' may refer to all homosexual people, or only to homosexual men, which is why gay man may be preferred as a term. Lesbian refers exclusively to homosexual women.
Although some early writers used the adjective homosexual to refer to any single-gender context (such as an all-girls' school), today the term implies a sexual aspect. The term homosocial is now used to describe single-sex contexts that are not specifically sexual. More generic terms such as homophilia ("same-love") may also be preferred.
Academic study
Anthropology: in different cultures at different times, homosexual relationships have been broken up into three primary social models:
Egalitarian: features two partners with no relevance to age. Additionally, both play the same socially accepted sex role as heterosexuals of their own sex. This is exemplified by relationships currently prevalent in western society between partners of similar age and gender.
Gender structured: features each partner playing a different gender role. This is exemplified by traditional relations between men in the Mediterranean Basin, the Middle East and Central and South Asia, as well as two-spirit or shamanic gender-changing practices seen in native societies. Albania also has a similar practice where a woman may choose to be an “Albanian Virgin" and thus given all the rights and entitlements of a man. In North America, this is best represented by the butch/femme practice.
Age structured: features two partners of different ages, usually spanning at least one generation. This is exemplified by pedastry among the Classical Greeks or those engaged in by novice Samurai, with more experienced warriors; southern Chinese boy-marriage rites; and ongoing Central Asian and Middle Eastern practices.
Incidence
Estimates of the modern prevalence of homosexuality vary considerably. They are complicated by differing or even ambiguous definitions of homosexuality, and by fluctuations over time and according to location.
Recent estimates of the number of homosexuals (not including bisexuals) in Western countries, where egalitarian relationships predominate, range from 1% to 10%, confined to a self-identified subculture. In the United States during the 2004 elections, exit polls indicated 4% of all voters self-identified as gay or lesbian. However, many who are homosexual may not be open about it in public and are therefore difficult to count.
In North America, the Middle East and Central Asia, where gender- and age-structured relationships are the rule, male homosexual practices are reported to be widespread and engaged in by many individuals who do not regard themselves as homosexual.
Biology
Prenatal hormonal theory
One recent hypothesis on the formation of sexual orientation is the prenatal hormonal theory. It holds that prenatal (pre-birth) exposure to particular levels of circulating sex hormones determines whether a fetus will acquire male or female traits, so similar exposure determines sexual orientation.
Physiological differences in homosexuals
Several recent studies, including pioneering work by Simon LeVay, demonstrate that there are notable differences between the physiology of a heterosexual male and a homosexual male. These differences are primarily noted in the brain, inner ear and olfactory sense. LeVay discovered in his double-blind experiment that approximately 10% of human male brains were physiologically different than their heterosexual counterparts. Studies in women have not produced similar findings to date.
There are some methodological problems with the studies. One of the biggest problems was differentiating brain changes that could have occurred in gay men’s usage of different parts of their brain, and potential clues to origins of sexual identity. It is a bit of a ‘chicken or the egg,’ dilemma.
Psychology
Behavioral Studies
Contemporary scientific research suggests that the majority of the human population is bisexual; adhering to a fluid sexual scale rather than a category, as Western society typically views sexual nature. Approximately four percent of adult Americans have been found to be exclusively homosexual for their entire lives, and approximately 10 percent were homosexual in their behavior for some portion of their lives. Conversely, even smaller minorities of people appear to have had equal sexual experiences with both genders indicating an attraction scale or continuum. However, social pressures influence people to adhere to categories or labels rather than behave in a manner that more closely resembles their nature as suggested by this research.
The consensus of psychologists is that sexual orientation, in most individuals, is shaped at an early age; and is not voluntarily changeable.
Nature versus nurture
Considerable debate exists over what biological and/or psychological factors produce sexual orientation in humans. Candidates include genes and the exposure of fetuses to certain hormones (or levels thereof). Freud and many others psychologists, particularly in psychoanalytic or developmental traditions, speculate that formative childhood experiences help produce sexual orientation. Other scientists and medical professionals, particularly those in biology-oriented disciplines, tend to believe that in-born factors, whether genetic or acquired in-utero, produce characteristically homosexual childhood experiences (such as atypical gender behavior experiences), or at the least significantly contribute to them.
Modern Developments
Marriage
As of 2005, four countries have enacted same-sex marriage, and other countries, including the majority of Europe, enacted civil unions. In Asia, the conflict between homoerotic tradition and a resurgent Islamic fundamentalism continues. Liaquat Ali, a 42 year old Afghan refugee, and Markeen Afridi a 16 year old Pakistani boy, reportedly fell in love and got married in a very public ceremony in October of 2005. There are efforts to refute the original reports that were authored by a reporter from the tribe where the wedding occurred.
Political developments
Publicly gay politicians have attained numerous government posts, even in countries that had sodomy laws or outright murder of gays in their recent past.
Religious developments
The overall trend of greater acceptance of gay men and women in the latter part of the 20th Century was not limited to secular institutions; it was also seen in many religious institutions. Reform Judaism, the largest branch of Judaism outside Israel had begun to facilitate religious weddings for gay adherents in their synagogues. The Anglican Communion, the world's second largest Christian Church in terms of membership, encountered discord that caused a rift between the European and North American Churches when American and Canadian churches ordained gay clergy and began blessing same-sex unions against the wishes of the Anglican archdiocese. Other Churches such as the Methodists had experienced trials of gay clergy who some claimed were a violation of religious principles resulting in mixed verdicts dependent on geography.
These developments have been accompanied by a response from certain conservative religious organizations, especially in the United States. In various instances, this movement has succeeded in overturning some of the aforementioned legislation and has had an influence on academia. In late 2005, Haworth Press withdrew from publication a volume on homosexuality in classical antiquity titled Same-Sex Desire and Love in Greco-Roman Antiquity and in the Classical Tradition of the West. This was in response to criticism from American conservative groups that objected to the discussion of positive aspects of classical pederasty, as well as to a chapter by the American academic Bruce Rind that was branded by the critics as advocating pedophilia. The publisher, in a letter to the editors, exonerated Rind from the accusation and conceded that his article was sound, but stood by its decision to withdraw it "to avoid negative press" and "economic repercussions."
Art and literature
One of the primary social manifestations of same-sex love has been through the medium of literature and art. The aspects of these expressions range across the gamut of the main artistic disciplines. Homoerotic sensibilities are at the foundation of art in the west, to the extent that those roots can be traced back to the ancient Greeks. Homer’s Illiad was regarded to contain a homosexual relationship by many of its contemporaries. Plato’s Symposium also gives readers commentary on the subject, at one point putting forth the claim that homosexual love is 'superior' to heterosexual love.
The European tradition was continued throughout the ages in the works of William Shakespeare, Michelangelo and Leonardo da Vinci. In Arab populations it was present in figures such as Abu Nuwas. The Tale of Genji, called the "world's first real novel", fostered this tradition in Asian societies.
Icons such as Madonna and Elton John have followed this tradition in modern times. Presently the Japanese anime sub-genre, yaoi, commonly features the theme. Artistic nudes have prominently displayed lesbianism. Playwrights have penned popular works with homosexual themes. These sentiments have pervaded many movies. A popular television series exploited these perceptions with Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, equating gay men with the ancient Greek Muses.
You can get more information on alternative sexual orientations by reading our articles on Heterosexuality, Bisexuality and Transsexuality.


























I agree with lizz and Sara
Man on man makes me feel uncomfortable, but I can defiantly get off too girl on girl. However I am straight. Or maybe bi-curious ;)
BEING A LESBIAN
I am a lesbian and proud of it. Never found a man that has ignited my interest (normal or famous)and have always had feelings for women. First time for me was amazing, she was so considerate and lovely. We used a vibrator but before then she fingered me into oblivion. Started making out and then disrobed. She started kissing me and going down my body (a bit embarasing as there is a lot of me) and then she asked me if I wanted to go further. It was amazing, she went down on me, and when I was ready she insert a finger. Not hurt me just a little strange feeling. Certainly knew where my g-spot was and what to do with it and then produced the vibrator. Bloody hell, I was so wet it didn't hurt very much, almost uncomfortable rather than painful. Started with the slow setting, but then she increased it!!! Almost blew me away.
Don't be hasty
Hello. While I don't know what, if anything, is "wrong" with you, I can give some advice: don't act on these feelings until you are 18. Even if you have willing sex with an adult as a minor, it will be considered statuatory rape, and your partner can be severely punished. So, indulge in your feelings if you wish, but be cautious of this possibility.
oops
this was meant to be a reply to the comment below. Sorry. :\
I'm a heterosexual man,
I'm a heterosexual man, who's father, along with being racist and antisemitic, was extremely homophobic. For a while in my youth I took after him. But, my mother, in her line of work (art and antiques) was friends with a few homosexual men, and they were always very nice to me. I was confused, but later in life, as I met and actually took the time to really talk to the gay men that I met, I realized that there is no reason to feel threatened and that my father was wrong. Honestly, I feel more comfortable talking with homosexuals, than what I do with a lot of straight guys because I don't feel necessary to act "manly." I hate the bs that young men are taught and carry with them throughout their entire lives.
What to do?
I have a friend who live at my uncle's town, when we were teenagers we used to do mutual masturbation, anal sex, but he used suck my penis. Now im 21 and i dont like it now. Last month when we met he wanted to suck again and i allowed him. Is it right or should i stop him? How?
Just say no
If you no longer want to have sex with your aquaintance, then just tell him that you no longer feel comfortable with it, and don't want to do it anymore. If you are not hurtful in rejecting him, then you cannot be blamed for his ill reactions. Try not to feel too guilty about "dumping" him; your body and sexuality are your own to decide, and it is no more his right to demand that you be gay/bi than it is for you to demand that he be straight.
man on man (or woman on woman)
I think love is a natural thing and is not weird at all, I am a straight woman but I think guy on guy is HOT =) It isn't weird or unnatural it is Love and Sex and a god given gift to us as human beings =)
I thought I was the only one
I really think guy on guy is very sexi and it turns me on more than any other pairinq, I told my boyfriend about it and told me I was very odd and that he was not going to kiss a boy or anything....so I thought I was the only one...
i love gay porn turns me on
i love gay porn turns me on more than other ones
natural
woman to man its more natural but i respect all things
sooo confusing
i think that i am straight. i have a boyfriend that i love very much, but i have also been in a relationship with a women. i miss it alot, but i never would want to leave my boyfriend. i am soo confused.
lesbian?
im 12, and i often wonder what it would feel like to have another girl giving you sexual pleasure. i mean, i am straight, but i am always thinking of what girl-on-girl action would feel like. someone explain?
lesbian sex huh?
if you want to know, 2 women normally just use oral...
Ok two women don't
Ok two women don't "normally" oral.... Most ppl just have bi-curiousfantasies...me included
never done it before
I have never tried woman on woman. It doesn't seem that bad, I don't think. It could be interesting. Would like to try it. But yeah man to man does seem a bit weird to me.
Woman as Opposed to man
I am a woman and find that having a lesbian type of sexual tendency is what I got no problem with as I find it quite stimulating. To me it's a great experience especially to indulge in 69 type and also fondling another womans breasts, vagina etc and receiving the same treatment from another woman is just as stimulating.To me woman to woman love is great, but I still have a not so good feeling if two men indulge in homosexuality. It sort of gives me a unnatural feeling.
Lizz
i completly agree. when your
i completly agree. when your with a women you no how to plesure her the same way u wid want to be.
I Agree.
You and I seem quite a bit alike Lizz my friend. Man to man makes me slightly uncomfortable but woman-to-woman makes me oh so wet. I love playing with another woman's pussy and I practically orgasm at just the touch.
Sara
I'm sorry. I don't agree
I'm sorry. I don't agree with you. I'm a woman and i think woman to woman is a bit weird. I don't have a problem with it but i think it's weird. Men to men is also a bit weird as well.
I don't understand why
I don't understand why anyone would have a problem with homosexuality. Whether it's man on man, man on woman, or woman on woman, the attraction is all the same and all completely natural. Even animals experience homosexual behavior. And personally, seeing two men together is HOT.
I agree I am bi and I love
I agree I am bi and I love watching man on man and woman on woman... I am a guy FYI lol