Analingus
A small word of warning ... before you start poking around their backside, make sure that your partner is ok with it. Some people are not, and won’t react gently when they feel an "intruder”". Some men will be uncomfortable with the idea initially, because of taboos of supposed Homosexual behavior. Let us put your mind at rest; anal play is thoroughly enjoyed by heterosexuals as well.
If you want to try analingus, but your partner doesn’t, don’t try to force them! You have a much better chance that they will try it if you have their cooperation, rather than arguing with you. Bring the topic up gently on occasion, and help them open up to this experience by getting them comfortable in the area and with the idea.
Cleanliness is essential with virtually all forms of this type of play. Before engaging in Analingus, make sure to thoroughly wash the area. A bath or a shower is a great primer, and can be the start of the festivities. Once clean, licking this area of the body is virtually no different than licking any other, and can be very stimulating for both you and your partner.
Without going too close to their anus, explore their inner thighs and bottom with your hands and mouth. Some people (especially women) have had bad experiences with anal play in their history, mostly because their partner moved much faster, or less gently, than they should have. If this is true in your case, getting them to talk about the topic is a great way to start. By learning where they went wrong, you can prevent that experience from happening again.
A great way to start performing analingus is to move into it after the giver performs fellatio/cunnilingus. The area is really sensitive, so run the tongue around in circular motions, use the tongue to tickle, and when you are both ready for it, even to penetrate.
Access to the anus is a little tougher than to a vagina, but there are several positions that are ideal: laying the receiver on their back with a large pillow to arch their bottom up; the receiver sitting on the giver's face; the receiver bent over with legs spread; the receiver laying on their back pulling their legs back, and the receiver upside down with their legs spread.
Once any part of the giver has been inside the receiver's anus, it should not be put in anywhere else until cleansed. For Analingus a mouthwash/ teethbrushing should suffice. Carelessness in this regard can cause a very serious infection.
There are many nerve-endings around the anus that can make this form of sex-play an absolute blast for both men and women... turn-off the taboos and get totally turned-on!
Was uneasy... But now im not so sure.
At first anything having to do with my ass creeped me out. The first time I was ever confronted with it was when guy just put his finger in my ass without even consenting me. He told me he could t help it my ass was just amazing and smelt just as good as my pussy, that was when I was 15. But now im 16 about to turn 17, and ever since I confided in this site im ending up having changed feelings. I havent even had penitration sex yet but thats because I've judge everyones fucking skills by how they are during oral. But now im starting to get super horny off the thought of a guy licking my ass and fucking it too. I mean I already know i taste good around my pussy, usually like cocunut vanilla, and i use the same products on my ass. And every guy tells me their so tempted to eat out my ass because of how good it smells and that it probably taste just as good as my pussy. But now im contiplating if I should do it, because well im so young, and im also now kind of nervous to even ask the guy im in love with since well we havent got to be near eah other since he parents sent him away til this summer, but we fell in love. He says he cant wait to fuck me in my pussy and ass, but im so nervous to ask him to lick my ass. Oh and is it wrong to be ok with lockig a guys ass too just because you enjoy giving pleasure?
eating the butt
I have come to the conclusion that I will only eat the butt if the girl is a 10.
Hoping to try some day
My wife is not interested in analingus. She won't even let me touch her there, she thinks it's creepy. It's too bad. I've always wanted to try this, just hoping she'll open up. For now, I can still get great pleasure out of smelling her ass whenever I eat out her pussy. Her ass smells so delicious; it's a pungent, sweaty smell that I love. I long to taste it...
my girl loves to eat my ass
my girl loves to eat my ass out, but i get taken to orgasm and fart in her face and she loves it. she does the same but i dont like it, but is it normal to fart at every orgasm when your having your bum licked. im a 17yr old girl btw.
I think this is the best
I think this is the best thing I have ever heard that your 17 year old lesbian girlfriend enjoys eating your ass out and having you fart in her face and mouth. This is great. haha
btw-Im pretty sure the fact that you do not enjoy people farting in your mouth makes you a normal person and is not a cause for concern.
clean enough to eat out [of] ?
Well, I'm glad this site exists , and this topic is being discussed !
I find , after VERY thorough douching , that flavoured anal lube , available at sex shops , helps make the analingus MUCH more inviting , and tasty ! Being a fan of devonshire teas [my folks are british ...what ho !] , I find that my favourite lube flavour is ...STRAWBERRY . [Close second would be cherry , or passionfruit ]. There is also peppermint , for the Colgate fans amongst us . As well as plenty of other flavours that warm or cool the mouth and tongue , and those lovely nerve endings in that nice warm clean pink puckered opening ...yumm ...
So , this is also written partly in answer to the question "how can you like the taste of arse ? " ....Well, when it tastes like a good devonshire tea [provide your own cream , guys !] how could I NOT like it , eh ?!
Thanks so much for writing
Thanks so much for writing such a truly helpful article. I find that I often get overwhelmed and have no idea where to start, for both men and ladies , be clean inside 1st . this is all true for men well known in tantra anal for ladies can hit her g- spot easy in anal sex . this all takes more time than fast sex.
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Need help answering this please :/
Hello, i enjoy giving my girlfriend oral sex, whether analingus or cunnilingus, but so far i have only done this separately.
If nothing is put into her anus, can i go back and forth from pussy to anus ? Or once i am at anus, i must NOT go back to the pussy ?
Again, i am aware that a finger which was in anus must not get in pussy, but how about a licking tongue ?
Thanks to everyone...
Your choice is a very
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illnesses
there's a reason not everybody is on board with this whole ass-licking process...my Mum is a doctor, and she had a lesbian pair who accidently ingested shit. She brought out a whole list of illnesses you can get from eating feces, which include hepatitis A, E. coli infection, salomnella, parasites, tapeworms, and others I don't remember. It is also the same with cunnilingus if you ingest urine. So, essentially, just keep it clean.
helpp! c:
okay! so I'm just wondering how the hell you clean the inside area(rectum) so someone can eat your ass out.
in shower
well u can clean it while u r taking shower....let ur back face the shower head and then with your hand spread your ass cheeks until u feel water going through your ass hole.. let the water run till 1 or 2 mins, you can also wet your finger and massage around your ass hole then clean your finger and massage again, then clean your finger...or else just tell your partner to do it for u...i can do it for you to...lollll
wuth the tongue
thats the way I clean my wife rectum.
want to have Anal
my BF has had GFs who he can just 1-2-3 enter. I am not like that - can't seem to get him in - he is not larger than others but I have never done it before.
I can get a small dildo in there (thin flexible rubbery kind with lube) but can't get him in with lube
I am not sure why I can't and desperately want to. he is not willing do do foreplay and if I try to get myself excited before he gets in the room it breaks the mood.
Any suggestions - I heard that desensitizing lube is NOT good because a woman could get really hurt so I won't use it - I only use normal lube
Time...
It's just a matter of time and comprimise. Your bf needs to work with you on this one if you guys want this to work well. the foreplay is crucial so that you can relax back there and it seems as though he may not be helping you out. I tried licking and kissing my wifes hole - on and around then introducing my finger in and out until she was more and more comfortable. Over time she started taking in a small dildo then finally a larger one. It still took time but I was ok with it. the long wait just kept me so horny all the time that when we finally did it I still wanted to keep licking her and kissing her down there. desensitizing lube can work during entry but whether you or him use it or not YOU MUST ALWAYS BE IN CONTROL OF THE THRUSTING. it's your hole so take care of it bc it can tear and you can do some damage. enjoy!!!!
Are there any tips for this
Are there any tips for this ive did this to my gf before in the shower and she liked it but she did feel a little weird about it. Is there any way to help make it better for her?
My boyfriend and I don't
My boyfriend and I don't like anal anything. I'm a very clean person and to be done up there I feel kind of uneasy and I told him that before we had sex. I'm just happy he agrees with me. Although I've heard that it feels good, as for being eaten out there I feel like it's unsanitary no matter how clean you are. Hahaha
i used to think that way
i used to think that way too, then a guy did it to me and it felt great. most people feel the way you do i think, but after experiencing it i looked past the clean issue, it feels too good. i figure theres alot of unclean things we do in life we dont even think about so whats wrong with doing this too?
I myself love anal sex,
I myself love anal sex, specially when the guy rubs also ur vagina, it's the best feeling!
And girls if ur afraid, try it first time with vibrator, relax all ur muscles, and also use lube :)
But it's a great great great feeling!
Good Luck ;)
Analingus
I love it when my boyfriend does this to me especially when he slips his finger in to, I have always made it a no go zone until my partner asked me could he do it one day and ever since i said yes i have no regrets its the best feeling ever try it girls u will love it
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My wife is against 'anal sex'. Has been for a long time. However, as most of you guys must know, when you put your middle finger into your womans vagina, your 4th finger is resting on your womans anus. Over the years, I have slowly attempted to slide my 4th finger into my wifes ass. Finally, while we were having sex the other night, I was able to put my 4th finger into my wifes asshole at the same time that I was masturbating her with my other fingers. To my surprise, she didn't object or freak out. It was a huge turn on for me. I believe that she will not admit to enjoying it for it seems that it is a religous taboo for her. This I can understand. I hope that I can have the feeling of my finger or cock in her vagina while I have my finger in her ass at the same time. It is a great feeling but I think that it will not to be. All woman out there. please send your thoghts. Thanks.
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my fiance is locked up @ the moment :( i sooooo wish he could b here ive never had my ass licked but like gettin my pussy licked drives me wild so i wana try
ive always wanted to try
ive always wanted to try this, but never met a guy who would enjoy it. i finally got my boyfriend to rub my anus and we tried anal. but he doesnt enjoy eating me out as much either, but to be honest, ive always wanted to sit on a guys face. how do i get him to do this? it would take alot with him since he thinks ass stuff is kinda nasty, but it drives me wild
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Hello kinky s. I am a man that loves to enjoy a womens anus. It doesn't seem to be the norm in either men or women so it's unfortunate for both of that our partners don't seem to be interested. My ex was like you and the opposite of my wife. We had a fantastically varied sex life. I must admit that the smell of a womens anus turn me on immensely, and I also really enjoy going down on a virgina, the smell of which I also really enjoy. I recently managed to persuade my wife to let me go down on her anus. She realised that not doing so may be pushing me into looking else where. Now I go down there occasionally and whilst I enjoy it, she insists on being very clean (I like the smell) and because I know she's not into it like my ex it's not as arousing .
You may be able to convince your fella to do it, but if he's not feeling it then I suspect neither of you will enjoy it that much. Here's a suggestion. If your as kinky as you sound, visit mightyfineass.com and post pictures of your ass. Then loads of like minded guys will tell you what they'd like to do to it.
Depends
Depends on the guy, I love to give oral both cunnilingus and annelingus. Also having my face sat on is a huge turn on, for either annelingues or cunnilingus. You would be a dream come turn for me, I am grilfriendless at the time .
Taste??
This is non sexual. I just want to know what shit tastes like. And don't say I should try it out because I am grossed out by it. I was just wondering.
to KMS
Well then - don't ask! Live your perfect life - hug your plush bears, eat unicorns and pass gas rainbows!
clean?
Everyone keeps saying "keep it clean" but doesn't that kind of ruin some of the fun of it? I haven't had the pleasure of performing analingus on my wife yet, but in terms of smell, her asshole smells by far the best after a long hot, sweaty day, especially after she's gone to the bathroom at some point. In terms of hygiene, couldn't I just wash my tongue off afterward? Wouldn't that essentially be the same?
i agree but i have to
i agree but i have to say
IT'S MUCH MOTHERFUCKING BETTER TO BE THE ONE BEING LICKED OUT
because it's just so satisfying
TO WATCH THE FUCKER SERVICING YOU CRINGE.
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yes!!
I agree...I love lickin my wife's asshole right after she takes a crap, that's the best. Or lickin her pussy after she pees and doesn't wipe, tastes so delicious!