She's Too Hairy!
Q. This girl I have been dating doesn't shave or trim her pubic region and I have been cleaning my area up for a while. How do I suggest she might want to clean hers up to make our sex more enjoyable, or so I'll want to go down on her?
A. Although not everyone shaves fully, shaving and trimming your pubic hair is becoming more of a norm. You are showing a good example by taking care of yourself. Does your girl know you do this – or has she not really noticed? If not, next time you are intimate ask her how she likes your trimmed look. Ask her to help you trim yours; a perfect opportunity to ask her if you can help her trim herself.
Try discussing this tactfully with her - she might just need a little encouragement. Express to her how sexy and attractive you think it might be if you were to both try a trim and/or shave. Talk about it as a mutual adventure and be careful not to imply that you are not happy with her as she is, just that it would be an aid to pleasuring each other even more.
Describe how great it would be for oral sex if you both had less hair in the way; perhaps pique her interest by explaining that it can also make your genitals appear larger and more attractive! Suggest starting out by trimming the first few times, then perhaps moving on to shaving part or all of the pubic area. Consider shaving each other if you find that doing it yourself is monotonous.
If she still seems a little uncertain of how much fun (and normal) this is, bring her to the site and show her our article on Shaving Pubic Hair - also check out the thread on Trimming/Shaving 101 in our Forum.















Its a garden - let it grow!
Some shave, some dont. If you love the girl, what does it matter? Dont think less of a woman if she doesnt shave it. I was surprised alittle the first time I felt my woman's hairy bush, but she has a back problem and can not bend that way in the shower to shave way down there. She did trim though when it would get too long and shave so it did not stick out of her underwear. Now, we have fun trimming and shaving each other bald sometimes. Certain times of the year (winter) I do not allow her to shave it at all! It provides some variety in the sex life, trimmed, manicured, bald or scary hairy - it's all good. Try it all different ways, it is fun and damn, a women has enough maintenace to deal with, why worry about their crotch being alittle hairy, by the time you figure it out, your pretty much at the point of no return. Besides, if your a real man - she has to deal with your hairy chest, right? Cause if your a man and shave your body - you are way to stuck on yourself.
Natural
What the heck is wrong with loving a person in their natural state?
Shave her pussy wen she
Shave her pussy wen she sleepin tht might work
Not too hairy.
Thank you again! A woman should be a woman, not a girl. I dont mind if my woman trim her garden around the edges, if she like it herself. Its not necessary to be sexy, but sometimes its nice with some variation in hairstyle. However, in the centre I prefer it to be thick like a forest. That is sooo sexy, and tells me I have a real woman before me. If I saw some hair trying to escape out of her underwear, I would get unbelievably turned on.
I, myself, like 2 have a
I, myself, like 2 have a completely shaved down vagina but its hard 2 find the time 2 do it all the time wit 3 kids (all 5 yrs. & under). I think the experience is definitely better and more sensual without hair.....in my opinion.
What the Fuck Anonymous
When I ever I read these "a woman's suppose to be hairy posts" it makes me sick! I enjoyed a wide hipped full figured women with a shaved pussy! When was the last time you saw a little girl (pre-pubescent) with large breasts and wide hips???? I be would be willing to bet....never! Some men in this world like a shaved adult pussy; case closed. While we are at it in most cultures around the world homosexuality is looked at as a defect not a welcomed way of life...but I dont hear your out cry there.
I live my life as we all should by liking what I like and letting others do the same...if your not hurting anyone and loving the one your with what is the harm?
pubic hair
I have to kind of laugh at the the comment above. What men need to know is this is not something we (females) learn in sex ed class. I was 40, when the guy I was seeing then told me, he wanted it bald, and I had just givin it an even trim. He was very kind and I can look back and laugh now. There is also a great scene in the Sex and The City movie, with the girls in Mexico, way to funny.
The way I look at it is this, there is nothing my current boyfriend can't tell me. I want to please him (in and out of the bedroom) and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way.
Tell her, she wants to know. And if you don't tell her who is?
How can she be too hairy?
For one thing a woman who is sexually mature has pubic hair. In many cultures worldwide a lot of female pubic hair is considered desireable.
If she she keeps her pubic hair clean, washing it daily, that is enough hygiene. If she has a vaginal infection then she needs to learn better hygiene.
Pubic hair is one of your erogenous zones. Just barely touching her pubes as you run your hands over them can really turn her on. I have been asked by several women to tug their hair during sex, even during orgasm as this increases arousal and orgasmic intensity.
Also if she shaves her pubes you are likely to get stubble burn on your face, if you perform cunnilingus, and on your penis. Rubbing your penis over nice soft puffy, fluffy pubes is HOT!
If she has pubes from hip to hip and you could make a handlebar moustache with them and that is a problem for you you could ask her to trim down to the classic triangle shaped bikini trim. But. I would like to see her before she trims.
Relax. If you are old enough to be having sex you should enjoy it with a grown up woman who looks like a woman, not one who looks like a pre-pubescent girl.
Omg thank you!!! In todays
Omg thank you!!! In todays porn star culture it is impossible to go unshaven if you are a woman! no joke, if you dont shave or wax regularly guys think that you take absolutely no care of yourself. i did not go through puberty just to go back to looking like a little girl, sure i dont mind trimming the hair on my pussy but i dont want to look like a child. our bodys grow that hair for a reason... by the way thank you, i am going to show my boyfriend your post because i want him to finally understand that you dont have to be shaven all the time