She's Too Hairy!
Q. This girl I have been dating doesn't shave or trim her pubic region and I have been cleaning my area up for a while. How do I suggest she might want to clean hers up to make our sex more enjoyable, or so I'll want to go down on her?
A. Although not everyone shaves fully, shaving and trimming your pubic hair is becoming more of a norm. You are showing a good example by taking care of yourself. Does your girl know you do this – or has she not really noticed? If not, next time you are intimate ask her how she likes your trimmed look. Ask her to help you trim yours; a perfect opportunity to ask her if you can help her trim herself.
Try discussing this tactfully with her - she might just need a little encouragement. Express to her how sexy and attractive you think it might be if you were to both try a trim and/or shave. Talk about it as a mutual adventure and be careful not to imply that you are not happy with her as she is, just that it would be an aid to pleasuring each other even more.
Describe how great it would be for oral sex if you both had less hair in the way; perhaps pique her interest by explaining that it can also make your genitals appear larger and more attractive! Suggest starting out by trimming the first few times, then perhaps moving on to shaving part or all of the pubic area. Consider shaving each other if you find that doing it yourself is monotonous.
If she still seems a little uncertain of how much fun (and normal) this is, bring her to the site and show her our article on Shaving Pubic Hair - also check out the thread on Trimming/Shaving 101 in our Forum.
















Love it smooth
A few years ago I talked my wife into getting her pubic hair lasered off. She did the full program-it took more than a year. I was ecstatic to have her smooth.
Unfortunately, the results were not permanent, as we were led to believe. She continued to keep neat by using a depilatory, Veet. I know it was harsh and stung, but was more effective than shaving.
Now, mainly due to self-image problems because of her age and weight, she has stopped all methods and has returned to her "natural" state. I sure miss it. Smooth, she looked extra sexy plus it was more pleasurable for me while giving her oral sex. She is now going to WeightWatchers, so I am hoping she feel better about herself in the future and will consider the smooth look once again.
Nothing sexier on my wife than wearing a thong over a smooth pussy at any age.
hair and nair
up until my husband purposed i never paid any attention down there thinking "no ones going to see it besides me". i did it once to see what would happen i will admit it felt weird...that hair and i been through everthing... i started to let myself go again after we got married and about a month or so ago my husband politly asks if i could maintain my self again...he dosent mind asking and i don't mind doing so
Hairy women
Personally I find hairy women a massive turn on my ex couldn't belive it whenfustiest saw her hairy pussy and arse after that that she hardly shaved coz it turned her on knowing it was turning me on and vice a versa so it's each to there own but give me a hairy pussy and arse anyway.
I prefer to have a shaved
I prefer to have a shaved vagina it just makes it easier to have sex and it is alot more comfterble having sex. Having a hairy vagina isn't my thing in my opinion:)
injoy it what bothers you.
injoy it what bothers you. i dated a girl when i was younger and she had hair half way down her thights almost to her belly button. lying the side of my head on her pubic hair was more of a turn to both of us than oral and did you know that hair stimulates both sex organs
you could encourage to shave
you could encourage to shave each other. that is fun and can be arousing as well
encourage to shave one
encourage to shave one another. that is fun and also can be arousing for both people
Personally I like shaving
Personally I like shaving mine. My pubic hair was very coarse and thick when I let it grow out, and it's painful to me. The hair grows too quickly when I just trim it, so I find that shaving works best. Not because it's supposedly 'sexier' or more culturally 'beautiful' but because I find it comfortable. I really don't care if my boyfriend prefers it one way or another, it's my body and I'll choose how the view will look.
shaved-no/ trimed-yes
I am a grown women not a little girl!! or a porn star. I should have hair there! I keep it trimmed, and will trim it better if there is a possiblity of having sex with my guy on the weekend. (only time we really see ea. other) Just need to trim the lower area real short, the top part not to short,but nice.
my bf and i tried having sex
my bf and i tried having sex for the first time, it wasn't successful and he got the picture of how my vagina look like with hair., the next time we planned to do it he asked me thru text to shave because he wants to eat peanut... i really laughed so hard and i explained to him that i tried it before and it was really hard. i get wounds and get sore down there, which he understood... he asked me to just trim it so he may go down on me... but then he didn't because he said the hair is pricking his lips... we laughed so hard about it.. then he said, he thinks it would be better to just let it grow, at least it wouldn't prick him...
but because i too want less hair, i decided to take laser treatments on my pubic area... so far so good, I'm looking forward to a very thin hair growth after the 8 sessions of laser treatments... he too is very excited! i don't wanna go bald, i just want it thinner... I'm a woman for heavens sake!!!
pubic hair.
When i started dating my wife she kept her pussy shaved all the time. As time went on she stop shaving and it got pretty hairy. I didnt care i was gettin laid all the time. It got to the point to were it was to hairy for me and i just asked her if i could shave her or if she would shave. By the next time we had sex she was shaved. It never hurts just to ask them if they would shave for you. Then one time she let me help her shave. Since we started having kids and just had one a couple of months ago she has been hairy. About a week ago she shaved again for me and i ate her pussy all nite long, to show my appration for shaving her pussy. If she is hairy or shaved the sex is still the same no matter what. Dont get me wrong a shaved pussy is out of the world but it dont make her pussy any better. Some women just dont like it. Its itcy and lots of work to keep it smooth all the time.
how do you girls like to keep it - hairy, shaven or trimmed
How do you girls like to keep it down there on yourself?
do you prefer to shave it off?
Trim it up?
Manacure it?
Or let it grow?
Oh...go clean
My X like my pussy hair long....it was a turn on for him .....to see when I had an orgasm my cum juice on it he would suck it dry.
Its a garden - let it grow!
Some shave, some dont. If you love the girl, what does it matter? Dont think less of a woman if she doesnt shave it. I was surprised alittle the first time I felt my woman's hairy bush, but she has a back problem and can not bend that way in the shower to shave way down there. She did trim though when it would get too long and shave so it did not stick out of her underwear. Now, we have fun trimming and shaving each other bald sometimes. Certain times of the year (winter) I do not allow her to shave it at all! It provides some variety in the sex life, trimmed, manicured, bald or scary hairy - it's all good. Try it all different ways, it is fun and damn, a women has enough maintenace to deal with, why worry about their crotch being alittle hairy, by the time you figure it out, your pretty much at the point of no return. Besides, if your a real man - she has to deal with your hairy chest, right? Cause if your a man and shave your body - you are way to stuck on yourself.
Natural
What the heck is wrong with loving a person in their natural state?
Shave her pussy wen she
Shave her pussy wen she sleepin tht might work
Not too hairy.
Thank you again! A woman should be a woman, not a girl. I dont mind if my woman trim her garden around the edges, if she like it herself. Its not necessary to be sexy, but sometimes its nice with some variation in hairstyle. However, in the centre I prefer it to be thick like a forest. That is sooo sexy, and tells me I have a real woman before me. If I saw some hair trying to escape out of her underwear, I would get unbelievably turned on.
I, myself, like 2 have a
I, myself, like 2 have a completely shaved down vagina but its hard 2 find the time 2 do it all the time wit 3 kids (all 5 yrs. & under). I think the experience is definitely better and more sensual without hair.....in my opinion.
What the Fuck Anonymous
When I ever I read these "a woman's suppose to be hairy posts" it makes me sick! I enjoyed a wide hipped full figured women with a shaved pussy! When was the last time you saw a little girl (pre-pubescent) with large breasts and wide hips???? I be would be willing to bet....never! Some men in this world like a shaved adult pussy; case closed. While we are at it in most cultures around the world homosexuality is looked at as a defect not a welcomed way of life...but I dont hear your out cry there.
I live my life as we all should by liking what I like and letting others do the same...if your not hurting anyone and loving the one your with what is the harm?
pubic hair
I have to kind of laugh at the the comment above. What men need to know is this is not something we (females) learn in sex ed class. I was 40, when the guy I was seeing then told me, he wanted it bald, and I had just givin it an even trim. He was very kind and I can look back and laugh now. There is also a great scene in the Sex and The City movie, with the girls in Mexico, way to funny.
The way I look at it is this, there is nothing my current boyfriend can't tell me. I want to please him (in and out of the bedroom) and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way.
Tell her, she wants to know. And if you don't tell her who is?
How can she be too hairy?
For one thing a woman who is sexually mature has pubic hair. In many cultures worldwide a lot of female pubic hair is considered desireable.
If she she keeps her pubic hair clean, washing it daily, that is enough hygiene. If she has a vaginal infection then she needs to learn better hygiene.
Pubic hair is one of your erogenous zones. Just barely touching her pubes as you run your hands over them can really turn her on. I have been asked by several women to tug their hair during sex, even during orgasm as this increases arousal and orgasmic intensity.
Also if she shaves her pubes you are likely to get stubble burn on your face, if you perform cunnilingus, and on your penis. Rubbing your penis over nice soft puffy, fluffy pubes is HOT!
If she has pubes from hip to hip and you could make a handlebar moustache with them and that is a problem for you you could ask her to trim down to the classic triangle shaped bikini trim. But. I would like to see her before she trims.
Relax. If you are old enough to be having sex you should enjoy it with a grown up woman who looks like a woman, not one who looks like a pre-pubescent girl.
Omg thank you!!! In todays
Omg thank you!!! In todays porn star culture it is impossible to go unshaven if you are a woman! no joke, if you dont shave or wax regularly guys think that you take absolutely no care of yourself. i did not go through puberty just to go back to looking like a little girl, sure i dont mind trimming the hair on my pussy but i dont want to look like a child. our bodys grow that hair for a reason... by the way thank you, i am going to show my boyfriend your post because i want him to finally understand that you dont have to be shaven all the time