She's Not Horny Anymore
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year. At the beginning of our relationship, she could not keep her hands off of me. Now I’d be lucky to feel a hand in a week. We didn't start having sex till about two months ago. Where did her sex drive go? What can I do to bring it back?
A. The answer to this is one that only she can give you! You need to have a frank, but sensitive, conversation to resolve this. You don’t give your ages, so it is impossible to tell at what point of physical and mental readiness she might be. If she was previously a virgin then it is possible that she has had second thoughts about starting her sex life at this time. She may think she should have waited longer, or perhaps she has discovered that the angst of waiting for her period every month is more than she had bargained for.
Read our article Am I Ready? (For Her) to consider what might be going through her mind. If she has changed her mind and wants to cease full-blown sex, then respect her wish and you will probably find that you will be ‘feeling a hand’ again. Give her the gift of time to be sure of what she wants – and when. As is always the case, communication is critical … go talk to her!
emotions
are you there for her emotionally...
i'm going through a dry spell, or a faking spell- hey'FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT-huh...
well, its just, i'm not all hot and bothered (in the good way) because my minds not there
my partner thinks okay, time for bedtime fun..but its what has happend in the day that preps me for night time fun....and he doesn't get it
it takes communication
i'm trying
but think about it
when you to got together, intimacy was a must, its what brought you to together
once you've had eachother
know you've got each other
it takes more work to want each other
and get eachother to want each other
its not just
hey, i know this is your spot..if you let me touch it...i know i'm gunna get some
-mentally prep her with out her sensing your agenda (cuz once she knows, she may feel used)
nice date, if she likes slow dancing
kisses
kisses, nibbling on the neck
hey, let that just be one nite
don't pressure
let her try and remember those amazing erotic nights
same.
thats what my boyfriend and i have went through. everything to a T. I had gotten really busy at work and other things and he felt as if i wasnt attracted to him cause he put on a little weight. but he is always perfect to me. but i was just tired and he confronted me and i told him it wasnt him and i wasnt bored with our relationship. none of that. i just had alot of my plate. After he confronted me that pretty much kick started round 2 of lots of sex and still going strong :)
it hurts
me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time now. and every time we have sex i hurt. it doesnt feel good to me at all. i dont know whats wrong with me. hes not my first but its never felt good. ive never had what people call an orgasm. i just cant get myself to get into it. every position hurts.and my partners not liking it. is there somethin wrong with me? please help me.
This happens to my fiance
This happens to my fiance sometimes. To much sex and she starts to get really sore. After not doing anything for about a week or 2 depending, things get really exciting. So it may be that your doing it too often.
or to little...
or to little...