Not getting oral sex...

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I agree most women dont not like giving them. I am one of them. The taste is awfull and the slimy feel is just down right gross. I will play with it with my tongue for a bit, but he knows thats all I will do. I also have a high gag relfex and tight jaw. I have tried it when he had a condom on, and I know its not the same for him, but this may help. Make sure to wash it with warm water (he will like it), then she can put her favorite flavors on it. This is the only way I will do it if he wants it that badly.

When I was 14 years old, my maths teacher used to love me. After classes he used to stop me pretending to teach some thing. When everyone was out, he would start kissing me. Since he was elder, I could not resist. I let him do what he wanted. He kept on doing this frequently. Later, he started taking my hand to rub his shaft. Once he opened his zip and made be rub it. He used to make me do hand job. Once he made me suck his cock. I never complained. As all was new to me. I was lucky to get away with orals only.

I can feel for both parties here. I too was molested as a child by a neighbor. He repeatly forced me to suck on his penis and he fondled my breasts all the time. (But then when I think about it, a 7 year old has no breast) He made threats of killing my family if I did not do what he wanted. Yes it did affect me for a very long time.
My husband is a very understanding man when it came to this part of my sex life. I knew that he wanted oral sex, but he never pushed it. I would attempt to give him oral sex and it would scare me. I could not even allow him to fondle my breasts. It would bring back memories that I did not want to deal with. I even went as far as to talk to a counseler about this and still did not help.
I could see the hurt in my husbands face every time I pushed him away. He would give me oral sex, but I still would not do more than a few minutes of half ass sucking for him. Sex was just not my thing. I did not like to be touched in that manner. I never had an orgasm, nor did I know what real sexual pleasure was.
Then jump forward 27 years, yes I said 27 years. All of a sudden this unsexual woman became very sexual. I started reading as much as I could on the subject and I spent hours surfing the net for more information. I went out and bought a dildo about the same size as the husband and I started to use it to practice oral sex on. I let myself get relaxed with a cock in my mouth. I slowly learned how to deep throat it and I made myself realize that what happened in the past needed to stay in the past.
So for my husbands 46th birthday my suprise for him was a blow job. Yes I said a blow job. I made a nice dinner for him and after the kids went to bed, I slipped into the bedroom and got dressed in a sexy outfit. I came out to the living room and told him that I was a call girl and that his wife had paid for a night of fun. What ever he wanted he got. We ended up in the bedroom and he told me that I was making his cock hard. I got down between his legs and I grabbed his cock, told him how perfect it was and I placed it in my mouth. I started out slowly and worked my way up and down his cock. I could hear by the sounds that he was making he was enjoying this. I continued to suck his perfect cock and soon he was telling me to stop or he would cum. He tried to pull away but I would not let him. I continued to work my magic on his cock and for the first time in 27 years of marriage, I let this man shoot his cum in my mouth. It splashed the back of my throat and I proudly swallowed every drop. The look on his face was well worth it. He grabbed me and kissed me. I felt like a woman for the first time. He was further shocked to see just how wet my pussy was from this. I now love to have him fondle my breasts, they have become a very erotic part of my body. That night I had my first orgasm. Oh my God, I cannot believe what I had been missing out on all those years.
I have become very oral now and I give him as many blow jobs as he wants. Matter of fact, I have become so into sex now that the husband cannot keep up with me, and he went out and found us a male friend that was in need of a woman once in a while. So now not only do I have an active sex life with my husband, I have a playmate that the husband approves of and allows me to have as much fun as I can handle. I give this man as much oral as he wants as well. It is great. We sometimes get into a three-some and I get to give both guys a blow job.......
My suggestions to this man in need, is to take time to understand what she is going through. Maybe you both need to see a sex counsler and work on this problem. She may be suffering from Post Tramatic Stress Disorder and maybe she may need to be on some form of medication to help deal with this issue as well. I went on an antidepressant about 4 years ago and I truely think that this is what allowed me to become so sexual and enjoy my husbands body as much as I do now.

I was molested by my step father when I was young until I hit my teens then it stopped. many nasty things were done to me. I got counseling and it didnt help. The one thing that helped me was time to heal and patience from any man I dated. i was married for 11yrs and he was very patient. it ended in divorce because he wanted to go into the swinger lifestyle. I didnt. what also helped me was one man i dated was willing to talk about it and let me vent no matter what i told him..he just listened and never made any disgusting remarks or hate statements. we laid on our backs on the bed as i talked and he rolled over and said I will never betray your trust in any way like that. that started my healing and since then... I have been moving on..never forgot what happened..but able to move on from it.. now my present bf says Im a sex nympho and I love to suck his cock any chance i get or take from him...be patient and ask if she would like to talk about it and be willing to just listen no matter what she says. no comments no judging no anything. and love her afterwards....make slow passionate love to her..let her feel your heart...and she will know..maybe then she will open up or at least start to....

I was molested by my step father when I was young until I hit my teens then it stopped. many nasty things were done to me. I got counseling and it didnt help. The one thing that helped me was time to heal and patience from any man I dated. i was married for 11yrs and he was very patient. it ended in divorce because he wanted to go into the swinger lifestyle. I didnt. what also helped me was one man i dated was willing to talk about it and let me vent no matter what i told him..he just listened and never made any disgusting remarks or hate statements. we laid on our backs on the bed as i talked and he rolled over and said I will never betray your trust in any way like that. that started my healing and since then... I have been moving on..never forgot what happened..but able to move on from it.. now my present bf says Im a sex nympho and I love to suck his cock any chance i get or take from him...be patient and ask if she would like to talk about it and be willing to just listen no matter what she says. no comments no judging no anything. and love her afterwards....make slow passionate love to her..let her feel your heart...and she will know..maybe then she will open up or at least start to....

it beter to have a oral sex in relationship. it give a good idea that we have a good sexuel culture.

I'm guessing that after 4 yeats, and buying a home together your relationship is very strong. Is there a ring on that finger yet? Who all is aware of this abuse? Is this cousin still in her life, even if it only means Thanksgving Day dinner? It is very hard to get past something like this, and this is only a suggestion. Where were they when she was abused? How old was her abuser?
Have you tried doing this while you were somewhere else. Such as they were in a bed so try the living room couch. Try the bathtub, maybe a lots of bubbles will help. Go slow, maybe just a peck one time and go from there, let her decide how far she can go.
And not to be rude but ask her what did happen with him. If he touched her head/hair, then you don't. You don't say the same words he said. Take HIM out of it, this is no about you and her.

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Where do you get your statistic of women who give BJs? Was there a study?

lol, just curious.

Option #1.You can get used to the fact that the great majority of women hate performing fellatio, whether they have been molested or not. Yes, BJs are great, but only 20-25% of women will do that. Option #2. Find a GF who will give you BJs. Option #3. Keep your current GF and get counseling.