No Climax from her Handjob

Q. My girlfriend and I were making out last night and she started slowly giving me a handjob and she was doing this for I'd say almost an hour and I still did not cum, I got hard but I couldn't climax. Any tips?

A. Most guys are experts at handjobs – after all, practice makes perfect! By the time they come to try it with the opposite sex they know exactly what works and how. Therefore, women are at a disadvantage and cannot be expected to become proficient overnight.

Luckily for you we have a full article on Handjobs that, once mastered, will enable any lady to totally thrill her guy, and it will almost certainly give you a few new tricks to add to your repertoire too!

Do not be afraid to show her what pleases by demonstrating on yourself, or by taking her hand and guiding her. You will both thank you for it – after all, imagine how her hand must be feeling after an hour (ouch!).

I agree men know what works

I agree men know what works best from masturbation so you need to take her hand and show her. Many girls don't get that they just have to move the skin just below the head up and down instead of moving her hands up and down - too much friction that way

I know what you mean. I have

I know what you mean. I have the same problem with my girlfriend. She trys but I have to take matters into my own hand to finnish. I have showed her what she can do differently and she is open to that so I gyess I am a lucky guy. If nothing happens in the first 20 mins or so she does get annoyed but will sometimes put it in he mouth and that seems to work.

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the best way to teach her is to let her watch you do it.that's also a turn on.John

I agree with you John, my bf

I agree with you John, my bf lets me watch me him masterbate and that has help me to learn more about his anatomy and his pleasure.

I agree with you John, my bf

I agree with you John, my bf lets me watch me him masterbate and that has help me to learn more about his anatomy and his pleasure.

bigger problem

my g/f and me were fooin around about two weeks ago an she started to go down on me. needless to say that lasted for an hour and a half and i still didnt cum!

this happened to me too..

When my girlfriend and I first starting to play with one another, I was having trouble cumming. Especially during her attempts at a handjob and her giving me oral. I had to reasure her that it wasn't her, it really wasn't. I had been a little nervous since it was the first time I was with a woman for a while, and I had gotten used to my own technique. The important part was to reasure my girlfriend that she was still attractive, she did feel bad, she thought I didn't like her. In her words, "I had never had a guy not cum with me," she almost cried. What I had to do is gently take her hand and lead her to go a little harder. This helped. Whats cool is we are both very patient with one another. Not to long after in one day she had two orgasms ((the big o) is sometimes difficult for her, but now she is having them on a regular bassis with me), and I had tree orgasms. Our sex life is still getting better because we communicate and I am patient with her. I have learned, not just from my current girlfriend, is that communication, listiening, patience and listening is so important. Well two things on topic; if this happens to you guys, she probably feels really bad you didn't cum, reassure her. Don't critize her in any way, and then reassure her she can be more abusive on your penis. I think a woman who has not seen a guy masturbate would be shocked at how vigurous we actully are on ourselves. They have to be far more gentle with themselves because of their anatomy. In most things we start with our own experiances first, so many woman I think are not hard enough. In the same breath we should be gentle with them and build up slowly to be vigourous.
From a Guy who Loves Foreplay

Get some lube to make things

Get some lube to make things a little smoother, it feels so much better. You don't need any of the real lube, vaseline or baby oil will do. Personally i prefer baby oil :P

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