Any secret to getting 2nd/3rd erection after orgasm?
Q. Is there any advice or information on how to get an erection more than once in a night with your partner? I can usually go for a long time during sex - but once I ejaculate, that's it; I'm done for the night. Any advice on how to get erect and stimulated again?
A. Whoa there, partner. Before you jump back in the saddle for the second or even third time in a night, you really ought to give your 'pony' - and your riding partner - a proper rest. Your body is telling you to take some down time … and short of using prescription drugs to help along a repeat performance, your weapon needs an opportunity to reload. It might not be isolated to a physical need to recharge either; it could very be that your mind that needs a break too.
Seeing as you're having sex for extended periods of time, the amount of arousal your mind needs to continue for that long has got to be intense. You and your sexual partner may have an incredible ability to keep each other titillated, but once you achieve release through Ejaculation the part of your brain that responds to anything sexually suggestive has been thoroughly satisfied, so it will take a good deal of 'turning on' to get you primed for more.
The one thing that's difficult to ascertain from your question is how long you're actually going for - and who it is that wants extra sessions. It may be that this desire to have sex again is a sign that one or both of you could use a little something extra that you're not getting the first time around.
As well as you and your partner shooting for extra sessions in the sack, consider varying the types of sexual activities you're taking part in. The following tips will make each session even better AND increase the likelihood of both wanting to go for even more:
- Try having a quickie on your first go at it. The shorter period of stimulation might be all you need to get going again the next time around.
- If you're not using Condoms with your partner already, use one. Not only is it a safe practice to protect against STDs/STIs, but the physical barrier it provides will help draw out how long you have sex.
- Switch up how you climax. The release from cumming through oral/ manual stimulation is, for some, less intense than that from orgasming through intercourse. You may find that ejaculating this way during your first sex session helps with your ability to recharge for the next.
- Even though you say you can have sex for a long time, brush up on techniques to Delay Ejaculation. If your body just isn't cut out for back-to-back sessions, maybe the extra strokes you gain with these methods will be all that are necessary to keep you going long enough for both of you to feel satisfied.
