I cheated on my boyfriend...

How can you say you love him if you're willing to betray him with his friend? How old are you? Do you even realize that you've probably just ruined not only your relationship with your boyfriend (which it seems you weren't ready for anyway), but also his friendship with the guy you're screwing around with.

BTW, if you're in middle or high school, or in college, or employed, be prepared. This will get out and you'll probably be called some very unpleasant names.

if you were able to do something like this then you weren't in love in the first place. also, you guys were together for 2 months, that isn't love that is a combo of lust and infactuation. laurinlove makes a good point too, you've screwed things up w/ the dude you're with and his friendship w/ the cat you decided to screw, you screwed them both. best to at least clean your conscience and come clean about things.

Let us say you introduced a friend to your bf. This friend was hot and took his breath away. They began seeing each other without you. One night, they hang out and they both get drunk. They end up having sex.

Would you forgive him?

Your bf had sex w/ your friend, would you think he loves you?

Do you think it is right that he slept with her?

If you imagine yourself with another person, that isn't cheating. But if you find yourself doing the deed, ya done messed up. In my opinion, If you cheat, you aren't meant to be with the person you're with because they aren't satisfying you in one way or another. Therefore giving you cause to look elsewhere. I see a hot guy, and think hmm, could be interesting! But will I act on it? No. Because the man I am with satisfies me emotionally and sexually. It's not wrong to look, it is human nature. But it is wrong to betray that trust your partner shares with you.

I am not sure how you can really know you love someone after only dating them casually for 2 months.

I think you need to question the true reason for your involvement with the boyfreind if he doesn't "do it for you", and also question why you were so quick to decide that you love and want to be sexually exclusive with him when you know that you don't desire him as much as other men. Are there feelings of social obligation at work in your relationship with him?

Perhaps you should play the feild for a while longer and figure out what your desires and needs really are before you try and commit to someone again.

Sometimes I have thoughts of cheating on my boyfriend by doing casual sex with other men to release the sexual tension I feel and cause i'm too horny. But well, i'm in a long distance relationship and w're not there for each other as often as we want to. I love my boyfriend so much though. And it's just thoughts, never really done it and I am not planning to actually do it and cheat on him.