I cheated on my boyfriend...
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over two months now. We talked about sex and are planning it. One day he introduced his friend to me, and I was love struck. This man was such a gentleman and very hot! He was nothing compared to my boyfriend. I started to see him without my boyfriend more often. Then one day when we were drunk, we had sex. What should I do? I really love my boyfriend but this man does wonders for me.
A. It sounds like you have not yet reached a point where you are mature enough to distinguish between true love and infatuation, to say nothing of understanding the importance of fidelity in a relationship. You are busy being unfaithful to someone you haven't even had a sexual relationship with yet! You need to figure out your true feelings for both your 'friends' and decide who and what is more important to you. If this is your idea of really loving your boyfriend then I can only imagine how you define it. Hopefully he moves on before he gets too hurt by you. Good luck!
put yourself in his shoes
Let us say you introduced a friend to your bf. This friend was hot and took his breath away. They began seeing each other without you. One night, they hang out and they both get drunk. They end up having sex.
Would you forgive him?
Your bf had sex w/ your friend, would you think he loves you?
Do you think it is right that he slept with her?
first of all 2month isnt
first of all 2month isnt much but heck it could be love.....
But on the other hand you cheated so you're still not ready for a real reletionship....
I my self had a boyfriend for over a year and loved him very much, but i just couldnt help by cheating....
I was cheating on him since day 1...
and after a wile there i felt so guilty that i broke up with him and told him everything that i did....
He forgived me!!! and still beged not to leave him....
i had let him fallen so deeply in love with me that he was willing to forget what happend....
But i couldnt....I felt just so guilty of doing what i did i just left him...
he is still very depressed i get e-mails from him asking me if we could ever be together again...
He comes to my house sometimes crying and begaing me still to come back....
And i broke up with him over a year ago....
and i still feel guilty
So if you want to do the right thing tell your bf what happend....
You got really drun and had sex with his friend...
if that is the truth anyway....
he'll be mad and all that but if he realy cares about you he'll find a way to forgive you
you weren't in love
if you were able to do something like this then you weren't in love in the first place. also, you guys were together for 2 months, that isn't love that is a combo of lust and infactuation. laurinlove makes a good point too, you've screwed things up w/ the dude you're with and his friendship w/ the cat you decided to screw, you screwed them both. best to at least clean your conscience and come clean about things.
Fisting
Just got married to my wonderful Love Of My Life. We experiment a lot with sex. But, I would like to try Fisting on her. My hand / fist seems so large I don't think she will even try it. How can I try it with her, or even talk her into trying?
how can you say you love him?
How can you say you love him if you're willing to betray him with his friend? How old are you? Do you even realize that you've probably just ruined not only your relationship with your boyfriend (which it seems you weren't ready for anyway), but also his friendship with the guy you're screwing around with.
BTW, if you're in middle or high school, or in college, or employed, be prepared. This will get out and you'll probably be called some very unpleasant names.